The reality of life is that there will always be winners, and there will always be losers. It’s a natural consequence of living. The interesting question is what motivates you more…the love of winning, or the dread of losing. The drive varies from person to person. Some gain their inspiration in life by the love and elation of winning. Others, including myself, are driven by the fact that they dislike losing even more than they like to win. But I have learned that I am

One day when Jay Leno was hosting the Tonight Show, he walked with his camera man onto the streets of the city outside his studio asking random people if they could name the Ten Commandments. The answers were tragically funny as most struggled to name four. Don’t lie, don’t murder, and don’t steal were the ones most people remembered. After that, the answers were often hilarious. The most common errant guess was, “God helps those who help themselves.” I’ve even heard Chr